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	<title>Comments on: Emotional Clutter</title>
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	<description>Trying to find an easier way of life</description>
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		<title>By: Catherine</title>
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		<dc:creator>Catherine</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Jul 2009 17:45:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>J
You have just made my day! 

I&#039;m writing a post on emotional clutter and was  moaning that I needed more reference material and I found you.

As I&#039;m on this journey myself, it was great to find you, and congratulations!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>J<br />
You have just made my day! </p>
<p>I&#8217;m writing a post on emotional clutter and was  moaning that I needed more reference material and I found you.</p>
<p>As I&#8217;m on this journey myself, it was great to find you, and congratulations!</p>
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		<title>By: J</title>
		<link>http://controlyourdestiny.wordpress.com/2009/02/23/emotional-clutter/#comment-122</link>
		<dc:creator>J</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 28 Feb 2009 20:23:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Shiona,

Thank you for the link.
Reading the petition actually brought out some strange emotions in me. The first time I read it I was so drained that I would have understood it just as much had it been written in a language I couldn&#039;t understand. Second time I read it a few times and the 2nd paragraph &quot;ackowledging that the need for approval is so demanding&quot; brought out a feeling of anger because I read it as if I should just accept the need for approval and not even try to change anything. Tonight I have read it again a few times and it makes much more sense to me and more importantly, it inspired me to start working on the 2nd part of &quot;Emotional Clutter&quot;

As far as feeling emotionally bruised and vulnerable, I mostly feel like this when I have opened up to reveal more of me and I think it is because, once I have opened up, the fear of being judged sets in. 

Be good to yourself

J</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Shiona,</p>
<p>Thank you for the link.<br />
Reading the petition actually brought out some strange emotions in me. The first time I read it I was so drained that I would have understood it just as much had it been written in a language I couldn&#8217;t understand. Second time I read it a few times and the 2nd paragraph &#8220;ackowledging that the need for approval is so demanding&#8221; brought out a feeling of anger because I read it as if I should just accept the need for approval and not even try to change anything. Tonight I have read it again a few times and it makes much more sense to me and more importantly, it inspired me to start working on the 2nd part of &#8220;Emotional Clutter&#8221;</p>
<p>As far as feeling emotionally bruised and vulnerable, I mostly feel like this when I have opened up to reveal more of me and I think it is because, once I have opened up, the fear of being judged sets in. </p>
<p>Be good to yourself</p>
<p>J</p>
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		<title>By: shiona</title>
		<link>http://controlyourdestiny.wordpress.com/2009/02/23/emotional-clutter/#comment-120</link>
		<dc:creator>shiona</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Feb 2009 17:11:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi J,

To me emotional vulnerability is inevitably related to a highly sensitive, delicate and exquisite nature. Being emotionally vulnerable may not be the easiest way to survive in this world, but it means spiritual and mental wealth that most people do not seem to possess. 
However, look what I&#039;ve come across: http://www.petitiononline.com/vulnerab/petition.html
I thought you might find it interesting. 
My warmest thoughts and feelings are with you. :-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi J,</p>
<p>To me emotional vulnerability is inevitably related to a highly sensitive, delicate and exquisite nature. Being emotionally vulnerable may not be the easiest way to survive in this world, but it means spiritual and mental wealth that most people do not seem to possess.<br />
However, look what I&#8217;ve come across: <a href="http://www.petitiononline.com/vulnerab/petition.html" rel="nofollow">http://www.petitiononline.com/vulnerab/petition.html</a><br />
I thought you might find it interesting.<br />
My warmest thoughts and feelings are with you. <img src='http://s.wordpress.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: J</title>
		<link>http://controlyourdestiny.wordpress.com/2009/02/23/emotional-clutter/#comment-118</link>
		<dc:creator>J</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Feb 2009 06:43:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yahay you indeed -;) I am delighted you found me and you are always welcome.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yahay you indeed -;) I am delighted you found me and you are always welcome.</p>
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		<title>By: bojinx</title>
		<link>http://controlyourdestiny.wordpress.com/2009/02/23/emotional-clutter/#comment-117</link>
		<dc:creator>bojinx</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Feb 2009 05:48:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi J,  I was going to ask if you had a blog... seems you do... and it seems I found it! Yahay me! ;)

It is great to &quot;find out&quot; more about you...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi J,  I was going to ask if you had a blog&#8230; seems you do&#8230; and it seems I found it! Yahay me! <img src='http://s.wordpress.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>It is great to &#8220;find out&#8221; more about you&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: J</title>
		<link>http://controlyourdestiny.wordpress.com/2009/02/23/emotional-clutter/#comment-116</link>
		<dc:creator>J</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Feb 2009 20:45:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you,

Today I have felt a little emotionally bruised and vulnerable from what I wrote yesterday.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you,</p>
<p>Today I have felt a little emotionally bruised and vulnerable from what I wrote yesterday.</p>
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		<title>By: shiona</title>
		<link>http://controlyourdestiny.wordpress.com/2009/02/23/emotional-clutter/#comment-113</link>
		<dc:creator>shiona</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Feb 2009 18:49:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dear J,
Thank you so much for providing the link to the book. I have already downloaded it.

But more than that, thank you for letting me know some more details about you. The more I know you, the closer I feel to you.

Take care.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear J,<br />
Thank you so much for providing the link to the book. I have already downloaded it.</p>
<p>But more than that, thank you for letting me know some more details about you. The more I know you, the closer I feel to you.</p>
<p>Take care.</p>
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